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February 10, 2009

Happiness is habit—cultivate it

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 Heavy snow and freezing temperatures have caused severe disruption across the UK.London and the south-east has been hardest hit so far with the region’s heaviest snowfall in 18 years.

ukDuring this current age where depression, anxiety, angry all the time, lack of tolerance and much more related symptoms are very common among peoples, I always think of happiness. I think that happiness is a feeling rather than a thing that we need to borrow or to snatch it from some other person. Feeling depends on the sensitivity of a person so it varies from an individual to another. If there are shops which sell happiness then it must be one of the most expensive product ever .In spite of frustration and negative approach we need to find out the sources of
happiness and to rise the sense of its feeling in us. Good relationships, helping poor and needy peoples,positive thoughts are the sources of happiness. Happiness tended to spread through close relationships like friends, siblings, spouses, and next-door neighbors,etc.etc.Keep in close touch with relatives and  friends. You can’t beat their love and support.Gather the crumbs of happiness and they will make you a loaf of contentment .Unhappiness is the hunger to get; happiness is the hunger to give… If the individual should set out for a single day to give happiness, to make life happier, brighter and sweeter, not for himself but for others, he would find a wondrous revelation of what happiness really is.
If you are still not  happy than you must be lacking many of above habits. Their is happiness waiting to enter in your life, but if you try to give your life, a positive change which are described above.

Have a laugh….. :) ..:) …….
Q: Doctor, before you performed the autopsy, did you check for a pulse?
A: No.
Q: Did you check for blood pressure?
A: No.
Q: Did you check for breathing?
A: No.
Q: So, then it is possible that the patient was alive when you began the autopsy?
A: No.
Q: How can you be so sure, Doctor?
A: Because his brain was sitting on my desk in a jar.
Q: But could the patient have still been alive, nevertheless?
A: Yes, it is possible that he could have been alive and practicing law somewhere  :) .
He!He!He!
If you’re too open minded, your brains will fall out. :) .
Have a nice day :) .

February 6, 2009

Build Walls instead of Bridges

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………………No road is long with good company…….
As the whole world and the individuals that inhabit it get increasingly cocooned, it is critical that one spends time with one’s family,friends.
While different types of relationships require varied attention, basically they are all crucial to our well being and wholeness.We all require certain relationships in our lives. Some, we wish we could avoid, while others it seems we can never get enough of.In a relationship, clear communication is vital to making things work.In practice, it’s often not so easy to express what you really want to say. All kind of complications can kick in, from a fear of a bad response to choosing the wrong time to talk. bring everything out into the open, It would be a very dull relationship if you agreed about everything. A conflict of opinion is a healthy thing, after all. It shows you’re individuals, capable of forming your own beliefs, as well as debating them. Even if you disagree with each other about major life issues, mutual respect will encourage you to find a way forward.maybe even argue about it a little bit. As long as it gets solved,( you’ll be happy,) and there’s no way for it toget solved unless you let the other person know that it’s a problem.”.Compromise is crucial when it comes to negotiating your way through any relationship. A listening ear and respect for your partner’s viewpoint will ensure you keep talking to one another. Flexibility is what’s needed for a solution you can both agree upon.“It takes two to tango,
Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.”
“Be the kind of person you would like to be with. Some people come into our lives, make footprints on our hearts and we are never the same. People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”
The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationships a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it.It is a sort of Divine accident. Every choice moves us closer to or farther away from something. Where are your choices taking your life? What do your behaviors demonstrate that you are saying yes or no to in life?  The more equally attractive two alternatives seem, the harder it can be to choose between them — no matter that, to the same degree, the choice can only matter less.  So long as we love we serve;/ So long as we are loved by others,/ I would almost say that we are indispensable;And no one is useless while they have a friend.
“Bear in mind that the wonderful things you learn in your schools are the work of many generations. All this is put in your hands as your inheritance in order that you may receive it, honor it, add to it, and one day faithfully hand it on to your children”.-  –Albert Einstein.
You cannot always have happiness, but you can always give happiness.
Present your Family and Friends with their eulogies now - they won’t be able to hear how much you love them and appreciate them from inside the coffin. 

February 3, 2009

Name and good deeds :) …

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  Goodness speaks in a whisper, Evil Shouts.
There was this man who saw a scorpion floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the scorpion stung him. :) ouch! that hurt.The man still tried to get the scorpion out of the water, but the scorpion stung him again.ouch! That really hurt He! He!He!
A man nearby told him to stop saving the scorpion that kept stinging him.
But the man said:"It is the nature of the scorpion to sting.It is my nature to love.Why should I give up my nature to love just because it is the  nature of the scorpion to sting?"
Don’t give up loving.
Don’t give up your goodness.
Even if people around you sting.
Live for something:
Do good, and leave behind you a monument of virtue that the storms of time
can never destroy.
Write your name in kindness, love, and mercy on the hearts of thousands you come in contact with year by year, and you will never be forgotten. Your name and your good deeds will shine as the stars of heaven.
You are what you think!
Your inner thoughts can cause you to be rich or poor, loved or unloved,
happy or unhappy, attractive or unattractive, powerful or weak.
 What you impress upon your mind, you’ll inevitably become. It’s a
psychological law that whatever you desire to accomplish you must first
impress upon your subconscious mind.
 Relentless, repetitive self talk will change your self image. You’ll affect
your subconscious mind with verbal repetition. Constant repetition carries
conviction.
 When you change your values you’ll change your behavior. Start thinking
of yourself as becoming the person you want to be. Self suggestion will make you the master of yourself.If you believe you can, you can.
  You can become whatever you want to be.
In this world everything changes except good deeds and bad deeds;
these follow you as the shadow follows the body.
Man has three friends on whose company he relies. First, wealth - which goes with him only while good fortune lasts. Second, his relatives - they go only as far as the grave and leave him there. The third friend, his good deeds, go with him beyond the grave.
To make one good action succeed another,is the perfection of goodness.Ali Ibn-Abi-Talib r.a.
My friend,  Live not as though there were a thousand years ahead of you. Fate is at your elbow; make yourself good while life and power are still yours.





















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