Working Away

To think of own happiness is the result of stinginess
selfishness is nothing else but a stingy way to receive without giving
or receiving while giving the least amount of love
in love - stinginess in a relationship always leads to divorce !!
this is a very powerful spiritual law for the protection of all true lovers.

I can’t understand why some people can be so  selfish with everything.
They won’t help anyone but themselves and have no regard for anyone or anything
I have real difficulty understanding why so many people will leave their supermarket trolly
 in the middle of a narrow isle while they fondle the potato chip bags (or whatever)
looking for the one that has the most in it.
 Meanwhile nobody can get past.
 My theory is that these people have their heads implanted so far up their asses
 that they are oblivious to the fact that the planet is occupied by more than just them.
My advice is "TAKE YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS ONCE IN A WHILE AND LOOK AROUND!" It is not just you!
I am sick and tired of people who have so much sorrow for their own struggles
 and a total lack of empathy for other peoples struggles.
I am tired of attempting to be there for other people,
only to discover over and over again, that the carelessness of mind that led to their problems
 will affect me in the end as they exercise their carelessness with me.
I am tired of being unperceivable in my relationships,
yet having to navigate the endless projections of others concerning who I may be.
I am tired of being interpreted through my performance of self,
rather than being judged by my potential to be responsive to everything that effects me.
Most of all, I am tired of being used and worn down by obligations to the people I love.
I am angry that I must constantly toil without peace, while surrounded by overwhelming
social stupidity and protectionism.
selfish people are brutish people who are oblivious to the negative consequences of their
 actions for their friends and loved ones and who abuse the patience,
 trust, and good will of all comers to satisfy their petty whims.

Hence if and as long as YOU are busy caring FOR you(yourself) and busy WITH you - (yourself)
you are occupied and thus no one else can give any love TO you !!
 A human being in a certain way behaves and acts like a container -
there is ONE amount or quantity of love in total "fitting into" or having "place" inside you -
 your love OR others people’s love OR much of your love and little love from others …
Other people’s love is by far more savory and delicious to feel than your very own love .