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 I was sitting with my mum and said "I love you mum and gave her a hug".The joy I saw on her face made me think, why do we find it so hard to love and hug?Why is it so special?

Love is beautiful. It is the mysterious force that binds people to those around them. It has infinitely many forms, and each of the forms never stays the same for long. Love is always evolving, and changing intensity. My own experience with love comes in many forms.I love many people, and many things, all in different ways. It can sometimes be ugly, but it is always beautiful."NICE" yes! He!He!He!

 Well love is first of all God and God is love! According to the greeks there are 7 greek words for love and the one that describes the love of God is called Agapae which speaks of a love without conditions..it’s is unconditional and seek the good of the objected loved. I would explain love as being a Choice a conscious decision which one makes. Love is a committment and one that is made with intelligences before it becomes a decision of the heart. I choose to love you with my mind before I love you with my heart because I beleive that you don’t fall in love you walk in love. Therefore it become imperative to love by choice and will and not by emotion alone. Because when one chooses to become emotional before loving intellectually then one often finds out that they have made a mistake. So Love is a committment and though it has emotions within emotion alone is not love. Simply stated love is not a feeling (feeling change so that’s why you could be in quote unquote love and out of love). To love only with your heart is to lost totally your mind. When you love first by choice then you can slowly engage your heart as your committment grows taking your relationhship to the next level.Agree?.

 Why is  it so hard to show our affection to those people we love that we sometimes loose valuable opportunities that we will not be able to recover ever. Tell someone or make them feel that we love them has become something of the past or we just leave it for a special date or birthday.

But, What would it happen if today would be the last time you would see that person? Would you give him/her a big hug? Would you say I love you? Would you let him/her know how important is him/her in your life? Then why wait until it is too late?I hug my mother, friends, sisters, brothers all the time.(I must hug more people .

A hug’s a way to share the joy
And sad times we go through, 
Or just a way for friends to say
They like you ‘cause you’re you. 

Hugs are meant for anyone 
For whom we really care,
From your grandma to your neighbour, 
Or a cuddly teddy bear. 

A hug is an amazing thing - 
It’s just the perfect way 
To show the love we’re feeling
But can’t find the words to say. 

It’s funny how a little hug 
Makes everyone feel good; 
In every place and language,
It’s always understood. 

And hugs don’t need new equipment,
Special batteries or parts -
Just open up your arms 
And open up your hearts. 

      Jill Wolf……….

 Everytime we show love to our parents, brothers, family and friends, we give them a happiness  that is something   that you will get back  ten fold.

Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today,
because when you give one, you get one right back your way. Try doing the   following exercise.  …………………………………………………………………………`

Give a hug and see the joy it brings He!He!He! . I love you mumHe!He!He!