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He who has hope has everything.
My thoughts;they become my words;my words;they become my actions;my actions; they become my habits;my habits;they become character;my character;for it becomes my destiny…
ive tried to help so many of my freinds who have gone through this n no matter how hard i tried i couldnt understand it.. but now i know exactly what its like… i just need somone who understands.. somone to talk to, somone who wont judge.. thats all i need n yet its so hard to find the right person
It does not matter how deep you fall, what matters is how high you bounce back.
Superman’s not brave. You can’t be brave if you’re indestructible. It’s every day people, like you and me, that are brave knowing we could easily be defeated but still continue forward.I am still thankful; I am not the ONLY ONE IN PAIN. There are others out there just like me, fighting with their meager store of strength and seeks out help, hoping one day they will feel better. I still don’t lose hope. I do this for my family’s sake. I don’t want them to be affected. I know I will get through this.

Found this……. …..

Weird Danish Laws: Man you lot need to get a life

Weird Danish Laws
The Danish are bloody crazy with their new laws, we like weird, we like crazy, but to take the piss in some weird way makes me wonder what the hell are you Danish on.

The Danish have some strange and weird laws and here they are –

• If a horse drawn carriage is trying to pass a car and the horse becomes uneasy, the owner of the car is required to pull over and if necessary, cover the car. (Your not bloody wrong)

• Before starting your car you are required to check lights, brakes, steering and honk your horn. (Got to love this one hey)

• Restaurants may not charge for water unless it is accompanied by another item such as ice or a lemon slice. Stick the water up your ass then)

• Attempt to escape from prison is not illegal; however, if one he is caught he is required to serve out the remainder of his term. (You do not say)

• No one may start a car while someone is underneath the vehicle. (You sure, I want to run them over)

• Any carport added to a building increases the value of the building by 15. (Stuff it I will build two then I get 30)

• When driving, you must have someone in front of your car with a flag to warn horse drawn carriages that a motorcar is coming. ( I’m not walking)

The laws above are weird but true. What do you think of them?

                        (or) Simply about allowing children to have their own way. .
   Once there was a child wandering about on the earth who was an orphan. He
   had neither father nor mother, and he was very sad. Nobody paid any
   attention to him, and nobody asked why he was sad. Though he was sad, the
   child did not know how to weep, for there were no tears yet in the world.
   When the moon saw the orphan child going about, he felt compassion: since
   it was night, the moon came down from heaven, lay down on the earth in
   front of the child and said, "Weep, orphan child! but do not let your tears
   fall on the earth, from which people get their food, for that would make
   the earth unclean. Let your tears fall on me. I shall take them with me
   back to the sky." The orphan child wept. Those were the first tears in the
   world, and they fell on the moon. The moon said: "I shall now give you the
   blessing that all people shall love you." After the child had wept his
   heart out, the moon went back to the sky. From that day on the orphan child
   was happy. Everyone gave him whatever delighted and gladdened him. To this
   day people can see on the moon’s face the stains of the orphan child’s
   tears, which were the first tears in the world.–The First Tears
A lover, who claims to love, can never hurt his/her beloved. Love demands that you care utmost for your beloved. You are concerned about their feelings. You make them as comfortable as possible. You keep them as happy as possible. You help them fulfill their dreams. You encourage them during tough times and you are always there for them. If you do not do this, there will be nothing called as love. The definition of love includes the qualities I mentioned.
Orphan characters in folktales and literature symbolize our isolation from one another and from society. They do not belong to even the most basic of groups, the family unit, and in some cultures this is enough to cut them off from society at large. In other cultures, orphans are regarded as special people who must be protected and cared for at all costs. In either case, orphans are clearly marked as being different from the rest of society. They are the eternal Other.
Activities that support orphans and other vulnerable children need to do more than simply meet their physical needs. They also need to address their psychological needs and needs for social interaction. These are termed psychosocial needs
Orphans and other vulnerable children require psychosocial support because of the trauma and stress they have experienced. Trauma is an emotional shock that produces long-lasting, harmful effects on the individual. Parental illness and death are causes of emotional trauma for children and young people. Stress is an emotional condition, experienced or felt when an individual has to cope with unsettling, frustrating or harmful situations. It is a disturbing sense of helplessness, which is uncomfortable and creates uncertainty and self-doubt. Psychosocial support aims to help children and young people cope with emotional trauma and stress.
care and love for our children  .
We all need rights, they ensure we survive, develop and they protect us. Rights are also about having the opportunity to be involved and included on matters that affect us. Rights ensure that everybody is treated equally and fairly. Sadly not everyone around the world has their human rights respected. Rights are the foundation of democratic society.

This Will Rot More than Your Teeth

The hospital’s consulting dietician was giving a lecture to several community nurses from

the Southampton area of Hampshire.

‘The rubbish we put into our stomachs and consume should have killed most of us sitting

here, years ago. Red meat is terrible. Fizzy drinks attack your stomach lining. Chinese food

is loaded with msg. Vegetables can be disastrous because of fertilisers and pesticides and

none of us realises the long-term damage being done by the rotten bacteria in our drinking

water. However, there is one food that is incredibly dangerous and we all have, or will, eat

it at some time in our lives.

Now, is anyone here able to tell me what food it is that causes the most grief and suffering

for years after eating it?’

A 65-year-old nursing sister sitting in the front row stood up and said, ‘Wedding cake.’
here…..some more Adult Literacy leaflet in Chelmsford, Essex, UK: If you cannot read, this leaflet will tell you how to get lessons.
Seen outside a second hand shop in Glasgow, Scotland, ‘We exchange anything - bicycles, washing machines etc.  Why not bring your wife along and get a wonderful bargain.’
In a restaurant window just outside Brixham, Devon, UK: Don’t stand there and be hungry, come in and get fed up.

Surfing’s no fun if you can’t tell people what you’ve found.
Blogging has become the new way of livelihood for many and fun for the idle ones. But there are also people for whom blogging has turned into an obsession instead of being a harmless hobby.
I am an internet addict! I can stare at google homepage when i don’t know what else to browse. The fact that I am reading this on a Sunday night (which still qualifies as a weekend) shows that I am an addict.:) .
You know that you are suffering from blogOmania or a severe case of blog addiction when
 :).. You want to blog about every minute of your life, even if it’s just about doing your daily chores.
# If your Internet gets disconnected even for a minute, you become anxious and worried. You start throwing tantrums and blame every single official who is responsible for the downtime.
# You take the comments on your blog far too seriously and irrationally.
# You feel good and relaxed about the recent article that you posted, but the feeling melts away quite fast as the time for the next article approaches.
# The more you write, the more connected and light you feel about opening up your personal life to your readers. The feeling of ‘I am somebody’ spreads over your mind overpowering you of all your real life aspects and bounties
—you ask your new neighbor their screen name and prefer calling them in abbreviated forms like IHM, DI, UI, OG.

—instead of real name you call your child Peanut, Brat, Poohi and their teacher just stares at you.

—you take a notepad, pen and flashlight to the theatre and note down each dialogue so that you can write a movie review.

—instead of bed coffee you ask for your laptop or get up and go straight to switch on your laptop/PC and read comments before even going to the bathroom.

—on the form where they ask your spouse’s name, you fill in as ‘the other half’, ‘Missus’, ‘Hasband’.

—when someone calls or e-mails, you ask them to leave a comment or subscribe to your RSS feed.

—you go on a vacation only to blog about it.

—you postpone meetings to finish tags.

—you forget your loved ones birthday but remember number of readers on your feedburner.

—instead of actual hugs you draw curly parenthesis in the air like {{}}

—your child walks for the first time and instead of holding him you run to blog about it.

—you smile and wink thinking about a blog post while talking to your boss (outcome could be a pink slip or something else )

—you forget to bathe for couple of days because you were blogging continuously.:( He!He!He!.

Does any symptom fit you? Then immediately blog about it. You are anyways an addict so one more won’t hurt or add to this list.

And………

if you are reading this on a Friday night or on a weekend then you are a confirmed addic

 Just wanted to have a quick moan as I’m really cheesed off today….
This is the one place to have a moan cos here everyone understands the feelings.I know there a others in a worse position but it doesn’t stop it being a big deal for you.
I’ve felt so tired the last few days, even sleeping for 2/3 hours at night , and having a 1 1/2 hour snooze in the afternoon doesn’t help…..every bone in my body aches, my neck aches,.if I sit down I suddenly nod off…… to be woken by  pain ….. delightful. I go to bed late but wake at 5am, then go back to sleep for a few hours. There are loads of things I should be doing and could be doing, but I don’t….the weather has been good, but I can’t be bothered to get on with,I … but I’m fed up - I want to sleep and wake up to find the last  month has been a bad dream and if I can’t have that I want this all over and done with. I want my life back!! I’m fed up with being tired, with having to read everything three to four  times before my brain takes it in.
seem to have lost all my motivation.
I know this too …

You have the power and strength within you to make changes to your life and any aspect of your life you are unhappy about - you can start by making a list of anything you want to change and work out what you can do to actively make changes in your life. You can choose to stay where you are in your unhappiness or you can choose to try and do something to change your situation for yourself.
nobody is perfect, everyone messes up sometimes, everyone does things they wish they hadn’t done, everyone makes mistakes - that is being human’!
and I’m just so cheesed off it with all.
 But   I hate being stuck in the house not having the energy to do anything, mind you I’m so stubborn usually I do things anyway, but not the last few days….Up till now I’ve had a few bad days, but this is a right pain in the you know what…!
I’ve had it with being "sick" and just want to get back to normal,(never thought I’d say that!)..
(a bit depressed) can you tell?.
I know……  Being fed up with circumstances is a good healthy reaction but when you pause and reflect on the good things, life isn’t so bad, Life is really only as bad as we make it and if you’re given lemons, make lemonade.
Refuse to let problems control you or your emotions. Disregard the factors you have no control over and focus on what you can influence.Yes have to do that.
Every night write down a few things you are grateful for.
Take one step at a time.
Thanks all .

Yes have and must do that.

 I was in a terrible car accident that almost killed me.
We need our cars and use them daily, but we never quite forget that the large machines we handle so casually are capable of taking life.

I was hit from the driver side that caused me  to spin  and collided with wall.

 Heavy snow and freezing temperatures have caused severe disruption across the UK.London and the south-east has been hardest hit so far with the region’s heaviest snowfall in 18 years.

During this current age where depression, anxiety, angry all the time, lack of tolerance and much more related symptoms are very common among peoples, I always think of happiness. I think that happiness is a feeling rather than a thing that we need to borrow or to snatch it from some other person. Feeling depends on the sensitivity of a person so it varies from an individual to another. If there are shops which sell happiness then it must be one of the most expensive product ever .In spite of frustration and negative approach we need to find out the sources of
happiness and to rise the sense of its feeling in us. Good relationships, helping poor and needy peoples,positive thoughts are the sources of happiness. Happiness tended to spread through close relationships like friends, siblings, spouses, and next-door neighbors,etc.etc.Keep in close touch with relatives and  friends. You can’t beat their love and support.Gather the crumbs of happiness and they will make you a loaf of contentment .Unhappiness is the hunger to get; happiness is the hunger to give… If the individual should set out for a single day to give happiness, to make life happier, brighter and sweeter, not for himself but for others, he would find a wondrous revelation of what happiness really is.
If you are still not  happy than you must be lacking many of above habits. Their is happiness waiting to enter in your life, but if you try to give your life, a positive change which are described above.

Have a laugh….. ..:) …….
Q: Doctor, before you performed the autopsy, did you check for a pulse?
A: No.
Q: Did you check for blood pressure?
A: No.
Q: Did you check for breathing?
A: No.
Q: So, then it is possible that the patient was alive when you began the autopsy?
A: No.
Q: How can you be so sure, Doctor?
A: Because his brain was sitting on my desk in a jar.
Q: But could the patient have still been alive, nevertheless?
A: Yes, it is possible that he could have been alive and practicing law somewhere  .
He!He!He!
If you’re too open minded, your brains will fall out. .
Have a nice day .